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Apr 2, 2011 - I was in the grocery store the other day and heard something really disturbing come from the mouths of 3 teenage girls. One was whispering to the others about how she let her boyfriend "put it in her butt." The others cackled and commented but the thing that was most striking was the fact that she added "it's okay because it's not real sex or anything." Excuse me? Since when was anal sex not sex. I mean... it carries the same risks as sex aside from direct pregnancy and it's an alternative to vaginal penetration. It even has SEX in the title!

I've heard similar stories of people thinking anal, oral, or digital (fingers) sex wasn't real sexual intercourse even though they all have sex clearly written out behind them. Hearing it though, that really struck a nerve. What are people teaching these kids? Whatever it is, it's completely wrong and those girls are going to grow up to be ignorant; knowing nothing of sexual education at all. I'd be royally surprised if she didn't think oral sex was just practice for the lollipop convention. It's sex. I promise.

Some of it is really hilarious and I don't know how to react when someone tells me that their form of sexual activity isn't "real sex." I don't know whether to laugh in their face, slap them really hard, or ignore the comment. I could educate them but I'm sure there will be comments on here that will be just as stupid and uneducated as those teenagers were. Sex is sex, my poorly mislead minions. It doens't matter if it's anal, oral, digital, whatever. PHYSICAL contact related to sexual activity, especially if it has SEX in the title, is "real" sex. So the next time your boyfriend says, "It's okay! It's not real sex if I put it there!"...He's lying. Educate yourself.

Side note: And don't be a smartass with the retort of cyber sex or phone sex. I did specify physical and you're just being a mild retard if you believe otherwise.

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Si
Mar 10, 2012 3:09 pm Detail View
Si said: Sorry, but I don't agree with the premise of this article. Really this is a matter of nomenclature, and what one person means by sex is different to what another means. How we interpret words doesn't necessarily make one person more stupid than another. Oral sex is certainly not of the same equivalence as Vaginal sex, and teaching this to kids has a lot of value. There are far less negative consequences on everybody in the case of Oral sex.
Jul 10, 7:14 pm
User17607 replied to Si : Sex is sex. PERIOD. The above article hit it right on the head when specifying that each of the big 3, oral, digital, and anal, all have SEX IN THE TITLE. Come on. Our kids DO need to know the difference but it is all SEX.
hale
Feb 5, 2012 5:43 pm Detail View
hale said: what is sex really theese days
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Dec 24, 2011 11:55 pm Detail View
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Technokat
Aug 6, 2011 12:02 am Detail View
Technokat said: I actually have a really hard time believing that this 13 year-old kid's b/f actually put "it" in her butt. To be so nonchalant (not to mention so loud in a public place), it sounded like she was bragging about a fantasy for the benefit of all who could hear her.
koo
Jul 1, 2011 7:28 am Detail View
koo said: OH. the whole "don't be smart and say cyber isn't real". the only part that is disagreeable is when it is a minor and adult.
someone told me that is not criminal. :P
NVMe
Apr 4, 2011 12:47 am Detail View
NVMe said: The main issue is not so much SexEd in school, but at HOME!!!! thats the first place of learning, one's first school. To b honest I think that people (mostly parents) complaint about how sucky the SexEd in their kids school is. Ridiculous enough, they leave all the blame to the schools, and what do they do? NOTHING! It is hard for them to sit down and talk to their kids about sex...like if it was a damn taboo! Everything starts at home, and parents should START the moral and cultural part of sex, so then the school can reinforce the learning with more scientificly explicit material on it. If the parents dont start by making their kids seeing sex as a real issue, then you can expect that in SexEd class at school they will be the first ones to giggle about aeverything and anything...and then next thing you know they will be having the wrong impression on sex and its derivates (stds, pregnancy, psychological and psychosocial impression, bad reasoning, bad decision making, etc...etc...) All I know is that I thank Lord I had the greatest parents to introduce me to this topic in a very well stated way.
Apr 4, 12:57 pm
User550 replied to NVMe : Very well written.
Apr 4, 5:37 pm
NVMe replied to NVMe : Thanks....I had to write this since most of,my friends ended up getting pregnant before age 19 last year....and even worse most of themdecided to keep them, and now they cant even deal with their problems as of right now. Its just sad.
Apr 4, 11:07 pm
User611 replied to NVMe : You're welcome. Yeah, while my friends were having babies, I was getting an education. I'm 23 years old and I can say for definite that I'm not ready to be a mother yet. I also take pride in knowing what is and is not sexual activity and I take the proper precautions.
User335
Apr 3, 2011 12:13 am Detail View
User335 said: cyber sex is cool
Apr 3, 12:18 am
gorwn replied to User335 : it is dangerous and most of the time the people on the other end of the conversation are not who they are pretending to be.
Apr 3, 12:49 pm
User394 replied to User335 : Cyber sex is about the only "safe" sex now and that's not even the safest. You could be tracked through an IP address or some other technological stalker BS.
Apr 3, 3:42 pm
User405 replied to User335 : cybersex is for bald old nasty men!
awful
Apr 3, 2011 12:12 am Detail View
awful said: Our school system is really missing a good sex education lesson plan due to the religious zealots
Apr 3, 3:42 pm
User406 replied to awful : you are so right, sex ed has been horrible since i was in school
Dina
Apr 2, 2011 11:16 pm Detail View
Dina said: Disturbing!!!
Apr 3, 12:28 pm
User384 replied to Dina : YEah really!

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